A lot of us have experienced unusual periods of stress and anxiety in the last 18+ months. Times are strange and we are all still coming to terms with everything. Maybe this is the year that you would like to give the gift of Time, Sacred Space and Relaxation. When you gift somebody a treatment, you give them permission to really look after themselves, to put themselves first and be in a space where nothing is expected of them, where calm and peace resides and where they can start to find balance on all levels of their being. This might also sound like something you would like to gift to yourself.
This year, I have added an extra 3 Christmas Voucher options, especially for you or your loved ones. In addition to the usual Open voucher for a specific amount or treatment, you can choose from:
🌸60min Hydrating Facial with Indian Head Massage (€60)
This treatment aims to hydrate your skin while normalising oily secretions. Your skin will benefit from the wonderful therapeutic action of Chamomile, Frankincense, Neroli and Patchouli through a holistic routine of:- Cleanse & Tone, Exfoliate, Soothing Massage for Face, Neck and Shoulders, Mask, Serum and Moisturise. Choosing the perfect blend of essential oils and plant extracts as well as the perfect skincare products for your skin type, make this treatment the ultimate stress reliever as the Aromas work on balancing the Body Mind and Spirit. For All Skin Types. Treatment also includes an Indian Head Massage to really deepen your experience and relieve tension from busy minds.
🌸 60min Relaxation Combo (€60)
Do you need some balance back into your life? Invite the body and mind to relax for an hour of blissful peace. Carve out some me time and choose 2 of the following treatments.
** PLEASE INDICATE YOUR 2 CHOSEN TREATMENTS at the time of booking your treatment IN THE ‘Add Booking Notes’ SECTION OF YOUR BOOKING.
🌸 90min Deluxe Winter Warmer (€90)
The ultimate head to toe therapy. Massage, Facial and Reflexology with hot stones for added warmth and cozy’ness. Combine all your favourite therapies with Hot Basalt Stones to experience one session of pure relaxation. The complete head to toe package. Begin with a destress BACK NECK AND SHOULDER MASSAGE. Hot Stones will ensure an easing of muscle tightness and fatigue. The Skin is then treated with a deeply calming HOLISTIC FACIAL using the power of herbs and oils to hydrate and nourish the skin of the face and neck. Complete the treatment with a grounding HOT STONE REFLEXOLOGY, taking you out of your busy mind and bringing balance on all levels.
‘ This could be the perfect gift to yourself before Christmas or a lovely unique gift for someone you love this holiday season’
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This post is a focus on supporting our immune system for all of the obvious reasons and the last 18 months. I am also seeing the return of the common cold, sniffles and general feeling unwell at this time of year. I had a poll on my social media this week and 60% of replies said they were taking daily steps to keep their immune system healthy while 40% said they normally wait for the sniffles to think about what their body needs. I’m hoping todays post will give you some ideas and inspiration to prioritise your health during these cold months.
Stress : This is the first point on the list because in my opinion, it’s the most important. Not just for the immune system but for the overall health of our bodies and minds. Stress can be seen with extreme emotions, trauma and grief or everyday occurrences like completing job tasks, dealing with co-workers, our boss, our family and friends, managing health issues, learning how to do something new etc.
The Stress Response : When we are experiencing stress, discomfort or busyness, our bodies release cortisol and other stress hormones to help us cope. It heightens our awareness and can be really beneficial in circumstances that needs focus. The immune system is de-prioritised during this process. When the experience is over, stress hormones reduce and balance is restored. Immune function and other body functions return to normal. There is a pause before the next stressful situation arises. Then hormones are go and we are once again in heightnend awareness. But …. What happens when we go from one stressful situation into the next. No Pause. No restoration of balance. The immune remains low down on the bodies list of priorities and we start to feel unwell.
What can I do? Look at what is stressing you out and be really honest with yourself. Don’t compare your life or your stress to anybody else. If you feel it, its valid.
Diet : I know I know. It’s mentioned in every article you read but really when you think about it, our food is so important to how the body is functioning. Did you know – low nutritional diet depletes essential Vitamins and minerals needed by the body. Alcohol depletes Vitamin B & C, Smoking reduces Vitamin C and the cadmium in cigarette smoke depletes Zinc. Other recreational drugs can weaken the immunity by reducing the function of white blood cells.
What can I do? Reduce your processed foods, sugar and stimulants like caffeine and alcohol. Increase fresh food with a good balance of complex carbohydrates & good quality proteins. Buy Organic if possible. Top ten immune boosting vegetables – Asparagus, Broccoli, Cauliflower, Garlic, Shitake Mushrooms, Brussel Sprouts, Red Onions, Bell Peppers, Squash. Top ten immune boosting fruit – Strawberries, Kiwis, Blueberries, Melon, Apples, Oranges, Lemons, Cranberries, Peaches, Pineapple. Or … just eat all the fruit and veg you like and likes you.
Load up on nutrition and give your body the fuel it needs to complete all its daily tasks. You don’t need to make huge changes all at once. Take one thing per week and implement that first. Slow and steady every time.
Supplementation : While you are getting to grips with the diet, you may need to supplement your Vitamins and Minerals. Immune Specific requirements are Vitamin B, C, D, Zinc and Magnesium. If you have a history of taking antibiotics, you may benefit from a Probiotic to replenish the gut flora. I would suggest a trip to the health store and a chat with the Health staff there. Ensure you are buying a good brand that is easily digested and absorbed by the body. The last thing you want to do is put more pressure on an overburdened system. You could also consult with a Nutritionist or Herbalist 🙋♀️ if you need some extra support.
Exercise / Movement: When we talk about our immunity, we are essentially talking about our lymphatic system as this is where our body filters bacteria and viruses. The lymph is something similar to blood, in that, it moves around the body in vessels but it doesn’t have a pump in the same way as the heart pumps the blood. It relies on muscle contraction to move the lymphatic fluid to where it needs to go. When we move our muscles, we move our lymph and we boost our immunity.
Water: This is the main component of lymph and so its important to increase your water intake, hot drinks (not coffee and tea as they can increase water loss) fruits, herbal teas etc. Drink the purest water you can manage and do it throughout the day in small amounts.
I make a nice hot drink in the morning after my walk and it’s been tweeked this month to include some essentials for this time of year.
Sleep: Sleep depravation can have a negative impact on your immune function as it needs the body to switch off into sleep so it can restore and strengthen itself.
What can I do? Look at how you can get more good quality sleep. Ensure there is a winding down before bed. Does the body need to physically relax with :
Does the mind need to slow down with :
Do you need to reduce screen time before sleep? Does your bedroom temperature and ventilation need adjusting ? Remember reducing your stress during the day will also help with your sleep at night.
Herbs : We have some lovely herbs to choose from when it comes to immune boosting or immune modulating as we prefer to call it. Echinacea is probably the most widly known and my personal favourite. This was the first herb that really showed me the power of plants and put me on the road to studying Herbal Medicine. You will always find images of the beautiful pink flower on my website and posts. I don’t recommend herbs here on my blog as a full consultation needs to be completed first. My aim with herbs is to reduce the symptoms but also to treat their underlying cause so a unique herbal remedy is formulated specifically for your needs.
I just wanted to finish with one last thought. Our bodies are wise beyond our comprehension. We have come so far in discovering all the wonderful things that happen on the inside but we are still learning. I am passionate about listening to our bodies wisdom. I honestly believe that the symptoms we experience are our body’s way of communicating with us. Nowadays more than ever we are disconnected from the body’s inner talk. When we get the cold, the sniffles or worse, something is clearing out. Sometimes the symptoms are the cure. Yes you read that correctly. Sometimes we just need to allow ourselves to be sick. We need to give our body the space and time to rebalance once again and let the body teach us what we need to move forward. If we don’t get quiet, we cant listen.
I hope some of these tips are helpful. Stay warm and snuggly this month and know … I am here if you need support.
Till next time, Be well and happy.
Image Credit to : Emma Simpson https://unsplash.com/@esdesignisms
|During World Reflexology week we are talking all things feet and reflexes. The organs and systems of the body are mapped out on to both feet, both hands and the face & head. Foot reflexology is still the most common way to receive a treatment. The one thing I hear from new clients all the time is … ‘Oh don’t mind the state of my feet…’ and when they are leaving the awareness has completely changed to ‘my feet feel wonderful. They haven’t had so much attention and care in so long’. |
We seem to know deep down that we ignore our feet when it comes to looking after ourselves. The feet absorb so much of the weight from our body and then carry us through our day, bringing us here and there and we barely give them a second thought. Us Reflexologists, will apply pressure and movements to the reflexes of the feet with the aim of bringing balance back to the body. How this actually occurs will be addressed in the next post but for today I wanted to start with something more important, Caring for our Feet.
Have a look through the list and see where you can give your feet that extra bit of care and love that they deserve …
|👣 Foot hygiene – In the same way we look after the skin on our face and body, the feet enjoy the same commitment to cleansing, exfoliation and moisturising. Always remember to dry your feet completely. |
👣 Treat yourself to a foot bath with some bath oils or salts.
👣 For dry feet, apply a nourishing balm or foot cream to the feet at night before bed. Pop on a light pair of socks to stop your feet slipping on the floor if you need to get up in the middle of the night. Use a nice natural product with ingredients that the body recognises and not something that will block the pores in the feet.
👣 When you are trimming your toe nails, remember to cut straight across
👣 Allow space in the day to kick off the shoes and socks and let some air circulate around the feet.
👣 Put your feet up occasionally to give them a rest.
👣 Wear socks and shoes that support your feet. Footwear can affect our posture and impact where on the foot we are weight bearing.
👣 If you have diabetes, foot care is extra important. Follow the link here for some specific advice from the HSE in relation to your risk level. https://www.hse.ie/eng/health/hl/living/diabetes/foot care information leaflets.html
👣 And finally show those feet some love. Stop the negative talk. If you feel that they are ‘in a state’, give them more of your attention. Care for them as you would any other part of your beautiful self.
Photo by Guillaume LORAIN on Unsplash
|“Only in the darkness of an ending does the New Moon rise” (Unknown) |
If you received my Clinic Newsletter last week, you will know that the theme this month is Embracing the concept of tuning in. One of the many ways this takes place for me is with a NEW MOON RITUAL. In ancient times, when we lived more in harmony with Mother Earth, we took time to worship the moon and honour her influence over the planet, plants, animals and humans. In our modern world, this sacred ritual gives us the opportunity to get quiet, free ourselves from distractions and turn inwards to set our intentions for the next cycle. This is a time of rest and reflection. Its a blank canvas. A fresh start. So put some time today and let me know how you get on.
Feel free to make any changes you feel suit you. It’s not what you do with the time, more that you set the time aside in the first place.
– Clear your space, open the windows and allow some fresh air in.
– Make yourself a cuppa Have your journal or some nice paper and a pen ready.
– Bring in some crystals or flowers from the garden.
– Play your favourite calming music
– Light a candle
– Bring your awareness into your breath
– Close your eyes
– Call your energy back from all the activities of the day, interactions with people and places and things. Visualise your energy coming back to you like whisps of golden light and settling into your centre.
– Call upon support from your Spiritual Tribe (you know who that is for you)
– Allow your body to become more relaxed with each breath
– Allow the music to soothe and calm your mind
– If the mind starts to wander and struggle, just return your awareness to the rise and fall of your chest.
– When you feel ready, open your eyes, focus on the candle for a few moments pick up your pen and write ….. without judgement …. without striving … Focus on things like … What areas of your life need some new fresh energy? What activities, feelings, thoughts are no longer helpful to you? What is holding you back ? What would you like to bring into your life? What seeds would you like to plant?
– There is no right or wrong way to do this. You might write sentences, you might bullet point, you might doodle or draw or make dots on a page.
– Finish your writing with a solid Intention. I intend to ….
– Set down the pen, Close your eyes again and imagine for a few minutes what it would feel like if this intention was present in your life right now.
– Blow out the candle and send this light out into the world to those that might need it.
– If you can, Leave your journal and your space set up for the next few hours or day or two. Come back and add or tweak your intention or write more.
Over the months you will really start to refine your intentions. Everything we need is inside … if we just take time to Tune in. In’Joy !!
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I first studied Aromatherapy back in the early 90’s and it was all centred around Essential oils, their beautiful aromas and therapeutic uses. When I formally qualified as an Aromatherapist in 2002, I started to realise that the carriers we were using were equally as important and choosing the correct one led to an increase in therapeutic value. Nowadays us Aromatherapists have access to a lot more botanical extracts like butters, hydrosols or aromatic waters, CO2 extracts, clays and powders.
Today I want to focus on carrier oils and their amazing benefits in the care of our skin.
Carrier Oils, also known as Fixed oil or Vegetable and Nut oils are lipid extracts from Nuts and Seeds. They are packed with Essential Fatty Acids, the ones we can’t make internally. Nuts and seeds go through a process of extraction, either Cold Pressing or Refining.
The latter introduces heat into the extraction process which can alter the structure of the fatty acids in the oil and destroy the aroma. I try to source Organic Cold Pressed Oils where possible, however aroma needs to be considered as the cold pressed oils will still contain a nutty aroma.
So let’s think about oils in relation to our skin. The skin has many functions but one important one is protection. An oil and water barrier on the surface of our skin, called the acid mantle has a pH which gives a slightly antimicrobial function to the skin. When we are under stress or as the skin ages, the oil aspect of the acid mantle is reduced, leaving our skin dry and because the protective quality is now lower, the skin becomes sensitive. Anything else that adds to this dryness will increase sensitivity. Think about central heating, air conditioning, difference in weather patterns – too hot or too cold, medication or poor diet.
“Dry skin and atopical eczema typically always show up poor lipid barriers and low ceramide content in the Epidermis” (Kusmirek, 2002)
Now that we can see the benefit to dry and sensitive skin, what about our Oily skin types. Many of us are wary about applying oils to oily skin because we think it will make the condition worse. Some oils can actually benefit oily skin, if they are not too thick and viscous. I tend to use a combination of light oils which will moisturise the epidermis but not leave an oily residue on the skin. Some carriers have been known to balance oil levels on the skin because they resemble sebum, the skins natural oils.
It’s important to note that treating skin conditions must also take into account the diet and lifestyle. There are many internal factors to consider also. While we are focused here on the external application of oils to the skin, we must also look at getting these essential fatty acids through our diets.
When I started using oils in my skincare, it was a foreign concept but nowadays the Beauty market is saturated with facial oils and serums. Today’s formulation is quick and simple. A blend of carrier oils to suit your skin type. Use what you have at home or order a few that suit your skin. I wouldn’t order huge quantities unless you are making big batches. You can add some essential oils if you want but remember Know your oils. Know their effects on the skin, their contraindications, their cautions and make sure you like the aroma
This is a formula I use for my Dry and sometimes sensitive skin:
|Avocado||Can penetrate better than most oils. Really softening and moisturising |
to the skin. Recommended for dry skin types. Prevents premature aging.
|Rosehip Seed Oil||Regenerates the skin, reduces ageing, scarring, wrinkles. Light. |
Penetrates the skin well
|Argan Oil||Very high in antioxidants and Vitamin E. Very nourishing to skin |
and preserves its elasticity
|Jojoba||Balancing to the Acid mantle. Non-greasy.||15%|
|Vitamin E||Antioxidant to prolong the shelf life of your blend||1%|
|Essential Oil||Adds to the therapeutic value of the blend.|
Consider Contraindications to skin
Let me know how you get on or if this is useful. Below is a table of my favourite fixed oils, along with images from my favourite supplier of Organic Cold Pressed Oils Flying Wild This fabulous range created by Arno is everything you need when sourcing really good quality ingredients, not to mention the beautiful packaging. Please look him up. His blog is full of more great info on carrier oils. In the meantime, Please feel free to use the table below as a guideline for choosing your oils. Experiment and find what works best for you. Have Fun!
|OIL||MAIN EFA’s||BENEFITS IN SKINCARE|
|ALMOND (SWEET)||Oleic, Linoleic and Palmetic Acids||Nourishing to dry skin, soothes inflammation, irritation and prevents moisture loss|
|APRICOT KERNEL||Oleic, Linoleic and Palmetic acids||Very similar to Almond. Suitable to dry sensitive ageing skin|
|ARGAN||Oleic, Linoleic, Palmetic and Steric acids||High in Antioxidants and Vitamin E. Nourishing and protective to skin, nails and hair. Regenerative and Firming|
|AVOCADO||Oleic, Palmetic, Linoleic and Palmitoleic acids||Softening and moisturising to dry skin and skin inflammation. Can penetrate the skin a little more than most oils.|
|BORAGE||Linoleic, Gamma Linoleic, Oleic, Stearic and Eicosenoic acids||Useful for recreating and maintaining normal skin function. Regenerates the skin. Adds suppleness. High in GLA|
|CASTOR||Ricinoleic acid||Quite thick and viscous. Softening to the skin.|
|CHIA SEED||Alphalinolenic and Linoliec acids||High in Antioxidants. Light oil. Hydrating and strengthening to the skin.|
|COCONUT||Lauric, Myristic, Caprylic, Capric, Palmitic, Oleic and Stearic Acids||Softening and Lubricating for the skin and hair. Melts at body temperature.|
|EVENING PRIMROSE||Linoleic, Palmitic, Gamma Linoleic acids||Beneficial for dry scaly skin. Speeds up the healing process. Repairs skin tissue.|
|HAZELNUT||Oleic, Linoleic, Palmetic and Stearic Acids||Absorbs well into the skin, leaving a non greasy feel. Has a slight tightening and toning effect. Good for Oily skin.|
|HEMP SEED||Linoleic, Linolenic, Oleic, Plametic Acids||Strengthening to the skin and hair. Has anti-inflammatory benefits for hot irritated skin.|
|JOJOBA||Eicosenoic, Oleic, Decosenoic acids||Fantastic for sebum (oil) control on the skin. Leaves non greasy feeling on the skin. All skin types.|
|MACADAMIA||Oleic, Palmitoleic, Palmitic Acids||Protects the skin from ageing. Provides suppleness and moisture. Vanishes into the skin, leaving no residue.|
|POMEGRANATE SEED||Punicic||High in Antioxidants. Boosts the tone of the skin. Beneficial for inflamed dry skin.|
|ROSEHIP||Linoliec, alpha linolenic, Oleic acids||Skin Regeneration – scars, wounds, ageing. Very light, absorbs well into the skin.|
|SESAME||Oleic, Linoleic, Palmitic acids||Used in Ayurvedic trandition to warm and ground. Nourishes and Moisturises dry skins.|
|SUNFLOWER||Linoleic, Oleic Acids||Softening and Moisturising benefits on the skin. Beautiful yellow color.|
|WALNUT||Linoliec, Linolenic, Palmitic and Oleic Acids||Softening to the skin. Beneficial for itchy dry irritated skin.|
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Although my treatment room is closed to visitors, I’ve been keeping in contact with my clients over the last few weeks and some have said that their lips are extremely dry. Say no more, I’m off to make a balm 😂
I’ve been popping these lip balms into all orders this week and while I’m sharing some formulations, I thought I would share this with you too. Its Super Easy and great to make with the kids too.
|Mango Butter (Substitute for Shea if you need to)||9%|
|Avacado Oil (or Any carrier oil you choose)||50%|
|Sweet Almond (Or any carrier oil you choose)||30%|
|Lime Essential Oil (Distilled) If you decide not to add essential oils, add the 1.5% to the carrier oil portion||1.5%|
This balm is really soft and moisturising to the lips. If you decide to swap the Mango for Shea butter, the aroma will be slightly different so play around with a few blends and see what works. Remember Know your oils. Know their effects on the skin, their contraindications, their cautions and make sure you like the aroma.
And ……. have lots of fun
Stay Safe !
If you know anything about me, you know that I love a good Balm. They are usually multifunctional and depending on the blend, have the ability to soothe, nourish and boost the skin. I have been making this particular face balm for the last number of years. I use it personally in my own skin care routine as an evening leave on mask and it has been enjoyed by the participants of my facial workshops. The method is simple and easy. I hope you enjoy it.
|Vegetable Oils (Fixed or Carrier Oils) You can blend a few together to get the therapeutic |
value you need. I love Rosehip, Sesame, Castor, Coconut, Peach Kernel, Sweet Almond,
Sunflower, Avocado, Jojoba.
|Beeswax – to solidify the product||9%|
|Essential Oil Blend – Choose from your favourites. Know your oils. Know their effects on the skin, their contraindications, their cautions and make sure you like the aroma||1.5%|
|Vitamin E – Antioxidant which will prolong the shelf life of your blend||1%|
If you need some clarification on the weighing and choosing Essential oils, hop over to my Mango Whip Post and find more info there. Taking note of how much of each oil you use is very important. You never know when you are going to hit on a great smelling product and to recreate it, you will need exact quantities.
The Nourishing Face Balm is a solid balm which will immediate liquify when it comes into contact with the skin. It can be used in very small amounts to boost and moisturise the skin. You can apply a little more as a Balm Mask and leave it sitting on the skin over night or you can thickly apply it to the skin, leave it on for 15-20 minutes and then remove with a warm flannel. The quality of the balm will depend on your choice of carrier oils and essential oils so give this some thought before you jump in.
I’d love to know how you get on.
Most importantly…. Have Fun
Butters can be so hydrating and nourishing but in their raw state, they require some effort to rub them into the skin. By whipping a butter we introduce some air and some fixed oils and make it lighter, fluffier and easier to use. This is my method for Whipped Mango Butter. Video shows a quick version of the process. Read below for more detailed instructions. Feel free to play around with the formula and make it your own. Make a blending date with yourself, Take your time and have fun.
If you would like to know how the formula and percentages are calculated, you can follow along here. If you’re not that interested and you just want the main details, skip to the pink box below and start from there.
Im using the following percentages to yield a smooth fluffy butter.
|Fractionated Coconut Oil||22.5%|
|Essential Oil Blend||1.5%|
Decide on how much you would like to make and then calculate amount of ingredients needed. If we take the easy example of 100g, then we would need
|Fractionated Coconut Oil||22.5g|
|Essential Oil Blend||1.5g|
In my batch today, I wanted to make up 200g so I calculated the following :
|Fractionated Coconut Oil||45g|
|Essential Oil Blend||3g|
You might need a small scale to measure out the essential oils and Vitamin E. If you don’t have one, you could use the logic that 1g is the same as 25-30 drops of essential oil. (It will all depend on the oil and the dropper size etc). So for this formulation you would need somewhere between 75 and 90 drops of essential oil. When I weighed out my essential oils, it turned out to be 84 drops in total. Using the same thinking, we can measure out the Vitamin E (2ml) as being approx 60 drops.
So that brings our formulation calculations to :
|Fractionated Coconut Oil||45g|
|Essential Oil Blend **||84 drops|
|Vitamin E||60 drops|
**. Choose Essential Oils that you like and won’t irritate the skin. As I’m formulating to support the skin, I tend to choose from Palmarosa, Patchouli, Bergamot, Lavender, Blue Chamomile, Lemon Expressed, Sandalwood, Frankincense, Neroli, Geranium. If you are curious how they might blend together, hold 2 open bottles together, in front of your chest and wait for the aroma to reach your nose. You can then add in another aroma or take one away. Finding a blend you like is a gradual process where you will tweek quantities each time until you reach an aroma you love. Start off blending 2 or 3 oils together. I rarely go above 5. Know your oils. Know their effects on the skin, their contraindications, their cautions and make sure you like the aroma. Taking note of how much of each oil you used is very important. You never know when you are going to hit on a great smelling product and to recreate it, you will need exact quantities.
Ok so let’s get started on the good stuff … Making the Product.
When the butter starts to get light and fluffy, turn off your mixer, put your Vitamin E and Essential Oils in and begin mixing for another few minutes. I usually use a plastic jug so that the blades of the mixer can hit the side safely and ensure all product is mixed evenly.
The Mango Coco Whip has a beautiful soft creamy texture. Apply in small amounts. Initially it may feel a little oily but it absorbs into the skin after a few minutes. I use it after a shower on particularly dry areas, elbows, knees, ankles and this week ….. my poor dry hands. The backs of my hands and between the fingers are the areas worse effected by the increased hand washing and sanitising.
Let me know how you get on. I’m here if you encounter any problems.
I’m buzzing through this week, filled with inspiration, magical, belly fizzing, can’t sit still inspiration. Do you know the type? It’s such a great feeling. I want to hold on to it forever. I know the pattern by now and like most other things, it will probably dip over the coming days. While its bubbling away though, I thought I would explore its energy a little.
What is it that delivers the ultimate inspiration experience? This week I witnessed somebody’s dream coming to fruition. I saw somebody go out of their way to help another without a second thought, I heard a really inspiring story of human resilience and I got to take in the beautiful blue view of sunny Dublin Bay. All of these are nice events but what gives them the edge, the oomph that we feel when True Inspiration is pulsing through our veins. I think there is more to it than just the reality of what we are observing.
Wayne Dyer (Author of Inspiration, Your Ultimate Calling) teaches that when we feel inspired (in-spirit), we are living ‘in’ our spirit. We are less focused on the material world and the busy random thoughts of the mind. We are connecting to our invisibleness, our soul, our source. Living from this perspective is beneficial to our happiness because when we are inspired, guess what …. We’re happy out! We are walking ourselves down a meaningful path, one which will fulfil us to the core and bring about positive change in our lives.
Let’s not just stop at the feeling of inspiration though. What can we do to ensure that this energy is not lost? How can we harness the inspiration so that it drives us to do something worthwhile. In the past I have been left frustrated when inspiration, excitement and great ideas would vanish as quickly as they had arrived. Now I have a process. Personally I feel that Inspiration needs space. When I’m graced with its presence, I like to give it room to grow and plan. I meditate, journal and write about it for a while to discover where its guiding me. This enables me to break down my ideas into manageable goals and begin taking steps in the right direction.
Wayne also wrote about the wisdom of Pantajali and his words inhabit my mind now as I ponder this subject.
“When you are inspired by some great purpose, some extraordinary project, all your thoughts break their bonds, your mind transcends limitations, your consciousness expands in every direction, and you find yourself in a new, great, and wonderful world.” …….. “Dormant forces, faculties, and talents become alive and you discover yourself to be a greater person by far than you ever dreamed yourself to be.”
Now read that again !!
I love these words. Dormant forces and talents become alive. That means up to now these forces and talents have been asleep. Often times we hold ourselves back because we don’t feel we have the ability. Who knows what talents lie sleeping inside just waiting for the moment when they can rise up and guide us into a whole new reality.
Wishing you a weekend of Inspiration and Fun
Until next time,
I have automatically created the intention of Simplicity for 2020. It started with a New Year, New Wardrobe project, which quickly launched me into a ‘clearing out’ vibe. Having recycled way too many bags of clothes and linens, I moved on to the Office. This led to hours and hours of scanning and shredding and ended in a firm commitment to a paper free environment. My home has reaped the benefits and it has also given some clarity to my mind and emotions. Who thought clearing out could be so therapeutic. I am infused with a ‘Keep it Clear and Keep it Simple’ Vibe and I have to say it feels good.
Taking this approach to selfcare is something I wanted to explore. Most of the wonderful clients that visit me at Clinic One Eleven will end up thinking about selfcare in some form or another. Clients visit for many reasons ranging from physical health concerns to more mental and emotional health care. No matter what the presenting condition, there is almost always an underlying stress issue in some form or other. Having the space of the consultation or treatment allows the client to discover what this issue is and then we look at some sort of resolution, which in a lot of cases ends up to be … yes you guessed it … selfcare.
Sometimes we hear this advice from loved ones as we cry, moan, blame, sniffle, feeling overwhelmed by life. They gently offer comfort and say, you need to look after yourself more.
So what is selfcare and why do we need it?
In its most basic form, selfcare is Caring for ourselves. I want to say, this doesn’t just mean our basic needs, it demands a bit more than that. However, If we look at basic needs, being fed, watered and rested, there are days when some of us can’t even manage that. We eat on the go, skip meals, don’t drink enough water and fail to get enough sleep. So for some of us, Self Care will start with making sure our basic needs are met.
Then I like to consider what I call Soul Care. This ventures more into the emotional and mental realm and looks at activities or absence of activities that feed our soul. What can we do on a day to day basis that makes our soul happy. Let me pose a few questions :
Finding actions to the above questions can give us some idea of where we can explore more self/soul care. I can hear and feel the resistance rising already. I’m too busy. I don’t have 5 mins to myself at the moment, how am I ever going to accomplish this? The thoughts of it are too stressful. This feels selfish when so many others need my attention. This would be lovely in an ideal world.
Well, let’s just break it down a little and maybe start with 5 mins. Sitting quietly for 5 mins and contemplating soul care is an act of selfcare. Reading this article and contemplating soul care is an act of selfcare. The main thing to remember is to not stop there. Tomorrow look for 6 mins. In ten days you will be doing 15 mins per day. Why not get the calendar out now and put some time in there to spend with your lovely self. Treat it like a meeting with your favourite person. Actually why not just BE your favourite person?
When we consistently invest in Soul Care, it takes the edge of the stress. It stops it building up to a point where we feel overwhelmed. And ….. it feeds our lovely soul with happy soulful experiences. Maybe it’s worth doing a Soul Care stock take and see what needs to be replenished ?
And remember …. Keep it Simple !
Have a great day all
Until next time, Be well